Introduction: Having a son-in-law, what are the challenges and blessings?
When a man marries into the family, he enters a world full of mixed blessings; challenges and opportunities. This article will share my story of having a son-in-law in my life, how it has affected me, and the blessings I received from having him in my home. The post will also share some insights on the challenges that a man will face and give tips on how to handle them.
After the day of my marriage, it seemed that my father-in-law never really had the chance to connect with me. My mother in law would take care of me on various issues. This made me feel as if I was not being treated as part of the family, rather an outsider boy who has come to use their daughter’s room. Whatever she did for me was appreciated and I used every excuse possible not to bother her. I never bothered her with my personal challenges because I felt that it was a woman’s place to solve challenges. I felt that the responsibility of solving challenges was a man’s duty only and while she did it, it was good.
Why Your Son In Law Will Probably Be A Dilemma for You Even If They Are Actually Pretty Nice
It is pretty common for a woman to have a son in law when she gets married. It happens every day and I am sure that you know someone who has a son-in-law. Perhaps it will be your daughter, you sister, or your niece. But what are the benefits? It is a blessing, of course. No one would expect otherwise because marriage is a great thing. When a woman’s fiance gets married, it means they are even closer to getting their own family. Your daughter will have someone to cook and clean for her, and she can grow up seeing that role model in action within her own home. Of course, it is not a simple or easy task. You must train your child and make sure they act properly towards them. There are quite a few reasons that your son in law will probably be a dilemma for you even if they are actually pretty nice people.
Shouldn’t You Be Getting Out More to Get To Know Your Son In Law?
Some women think that they need to get out a lot more to get to know their son-in-law. In some cases this is a great idea, in others it is not. The truth is the happiness of your daughter will be the most important factor. If she feels like her son in law treats her well and he is a good husband, then she will be happy. She will feel that she has proper protection within the family and she will enjoy being a part of it. It will be a wonderful thing to see your daughter look at her son-in-law as if he is her true father. That is real love and you don’t have to worry about it.
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Title:Shouldn’t You Be Getting Out More to Get To Know Your Son In Law? [ARTICLE BACKGROUND]
How To Overcome the Challenges of Being a Parent’s Daughter’s Husband
All you need to do to overcome the challenges of being a daughter’s husband is to be a good guy. Listen to her and listen to her parents. Work with them, feel them out, and figure out how they like things. In most cases the daughter is a good judge of character. If you treat your in laws well, show respect towards them, and then show your wife the same, then you are going to be a great son in law. The same goes for being a father in law. Don’t be that guy. That guy is always the sore loser with no manners. He will say things to you and your wife to get back at her or her family, or the universe for that matter. You don’t want to be like that person so stop it. And don’t fight back with your wife’s side of the family. They are already mad at you and if you fight them on their terms, then they might just come out ahead in the end. You may think you are being clever or witty but it will always, always, always backfire. Just listen to her and her family, do as much as you can for them, and you will fit in just fine. [END ARTICLE]
How To Deal With Multiple Step Kids And Grandkids All At Once
One of the toughest things about being a son-in-law is all the kids who live with you. Even though you like to have them around, it does cause quite a bit of stress on your shoulders. The good news is that this will not have to be a one time deal. When you have multiple step children and grandkids all under one roof, you will have to make sure that everyone gets along. You will either have to handle it yourself or get help from another family member such as your in laws or a house keeper. But if you find a way, then it will work out great. What you need to do is take this into account. Instead of getting angry and frustrated, learn how to deal with multiple step kids and grandkids all at once.
There are times when you will want to get away from all the chaos that is going on in your home. You do not have to be stuck in your own little world with no one out there playing with you or your kids. Being a parent does not mean that you cannot have fun or that extended family does not matter anymore. You do not have to take on more responsibility than you need to. What you need is to be open minded and understand that everyone has a different way of doing things. Just like yourself, they will want privacy and their own space.